You cannot and must not give up on yourself and your goals. Believe in yourself and believe that you can and will succeed. Keep trying – keep doing different things to achieve your goals. Most people never achieve their goals because they often quit just when they are on the verge of reaching their dream. Remember the saying “success lies just beyond failure”. Let’s face it if you give up on something – it’s over and nothing changes for you. Those who quit always fail. Those who succeed never give up.
I know some of you will be saying “I haven’t given up – I’ve been trying for 15 years and nothing has changed. I keep trying and nothing works – I simply can’t go on anymore.”
Succeeding isn’t about doing the same thing over and over again and hoping for a different result. That’s insanity.
By never giving up, you continue striving toward your goals but you have to always try something different in order to get a different result. Always look for a solution. To stay committed to your goal and why you should never give up and how to keep the momentum going so you reach or surpass your goals.
To achieve your goals and enjoy success you have to stay on course despite distractions or any barriers that could throw you off course. Your mind will often convince you to give up. It’s only because your mind is used to having things a certain way and is comfortable with failure. Success can be jarring it’s not in your comfort zone. It’s not what your mind is used to. Your mind can’t relate to it, so it tries to keep you in the comfort zone that it knows, which is failure!
Too often people give up, or don’t try a different option, refuse to keep an open mind or think they know everything when really it’s just their mind convincing them to give up so that it can go back to what it knows best, what it’s comfortable with, which is failure.
But the truth is you don’t want failure – you want success. So you have to push your mind in a different direction. You have to direct your subconscious mind to create success. And that means trying different things even when you feel like giving up. Those who are great achievers and successful don’t fall for the mind’s little tricks. They don’t think they know everything they remain open to opportunities and all possibilities. They are willing to learn and try something new – despite what their mind might say and they are open to learn new things everyday. Those who fail do the exact opposite.
They sometimes think they know the answers and outcome before they start, and think they know everything and are not open to new possibilities, and not willing to try and learn something new – but they continue to try and achieve all of their goals, by doing the same things over and over again.
If you want to be successful, if you want to achieve your goals, then you have to try doing something different so that you get a different result. You have to step outside your comfort zone, consider all options, be willing to learn something new, stay open minded and don’t assume you know everything – because after all, no one really knows everything.
If that were the case we wouldn’t be making new discoveries in different fields. By doing the above you force your mind to go in a different direction and no longer accept its excuses for not succeeding. You no longer allow yourself to give up before even getting started.
At the same time you instruct your subconscious mind to help you succeed because you tell it that you’re open to new options and ready to succeed at all costs. That you’re willing to learn, grow and experience new things even if you may know something you’re still willing to explore it from a new view point. You’re giving your subconscious mind new instructions, so that it drives you to succeed. You can achieve your goals. Try a different approach. Be willing to learn something new. Don’t accept that you know everything even if you think you’re going through a familiar process – you may discover something new. Be open to any and all possibilities. Instruct your subconscious mind to help you find all options to help you succeed.
Think about what you want. Then take a look at what you’ve been doing to achieve that goal, write it down if you have to. Next direct your mind and subconscious mind to find new ways to achieve your goals. Don’t accept the idea or the belief that you’ve tried everything. If you had truly tried everything you would have been successful already. The truth is you’ve only tried everything that you know – and if you haven’t yet succeeded then there is something that you don’t know or something that you have not discovered or tried. Now you have to get your mind and subconscious mind to help you find a way to succeed.
Thomas Edison went through ten thousand experiments before he figured out how to invent the light bulb. He stayed persistent, tried a different approach and never believed that he knew everything. If you want to be wealthy, think of all the things you have tried, and then focus on finding a solution by searching for things you haven’t tried. You may think a certain approach won’t work but if you haven’t tried it – you don’t know. Search for new solutions. Stay persistent and change your attitude and approach. Create positive thoughts and beliefs that help you succeed. To succeed you have to believe that you can achieve your goals.
Your subconscious mind picks up on your beliefs and creates your reality based on what you believe. So if you are persistent and believe that you have tried everything and can’t succeed – then your subconscious is not going to direct you to new solutions and will only guide you to situations that will help you fail – after all, that’s what you believe.
How can we move this forward and what can you now do?
- Change your beliefs
- If you’re not achieving your goals then your beliefs have to change
- To change your beliefs first change your thoughts.
Track your current thoughts and change those that don’t work for you. If you don’t believe there is a way, change that belief, and regularly tell yourself that there is a way – repeat positive affirmations every day, twice a day.
Then begin looking for a new way to achieve your goal. Try a different approach.
Affirmation: “I can be what I WILL to be”
If you give up on a challenge then nothing changes, you never realise more of your potential and you never achieve the success that you desperately want.
- Try a different approach and keep an open mind
- Be willing to learn something new don’t believe that you know everything
- And don’t believe that you have tried everything
- Focus on finding new solutions and stay persistent.
- Begin instructing your subconscious mind to help you find new ways to achieve your goals
Good Luck!
